- Educate yourself about the warning signs of abuse.- Be aware of the people in your life who should get regular updates on how your loved one is doing.- Make sure your loved one has a support network in place so they can talk about their concerns.- Make sure your loved one has someone they can rely on if they need help.- Make sure your loved one has a will in place so their assets are distributed as they want them.- Let people know about your loved one’s situation. Sometimes this can make them more careful when interacting with them.- Be open with your family about your loved one’s situation so they can be watchful when dealing with them.- Report any suspicious activity to the authorities.- Be wary of strangers who approach your loved one with gifts or money.- Educate yourself on the resources available in your community that can help with abuse prevention.- Make sure your loved one has all their appointments and follow up dates and times written down with a calendar or other type of planner.- Make sure your loved one has identification and a way to get help if they ever need it.- Educate your loved one on the signs of abuse and how to recognize them in others.- Set boundaries with family members and friends.- Don’t expect miracles or quick fixes.- Be patient with yourself and others. Everyone is going through a lot of change right now.
Recognize the warning signs
Abusive relationships usually start with someone trying to control your loved one’s money, property, or other assets. If your loved one is being abused, you may notice that they are nervous about their finances, or they are keeping large amounts of cash at home. Pay attention to the way your loved one acts and speaks. They may show signs of isolation, depression, or anxiety that don’t go away after the initial shock of being abused has worn off. They may start drinking or doing drugs more frequently than they used to. They might be losing interest in hobbies they used to enjoy or become more withdrawn.They may have unexplained injuries or changes to their physical appearance, such as bruises or scars. Your loved one may start having trouble sleeping or eating. If you notice any of these signs, trust your instincts. Don’t ignore them, and don’t try to talk your loved one out of it. Instead, report it to the authorities as soon as possible.
Be aware of the people in your life who should get regular updates
- Your loved one’s doctor - Your loved one’s doctor can tell you if there are any signs of abuse, such as bruising or injuries that don’t make sense. And if you can’t get in to see your loved one in person, their doctor may be able to reach out to them on their behalf.- Your loved one’s caregiver - Your loved one’s caregiver can help you keep your loved one safe by letting you know when they are planning to leave the house or when they are having visitors. The caregiver can also let you know if there are any changes in your loved one’s health or behavior that don’t seem normal.- Family members - You can help your loved one by keeping their family informed about their situation. You can ask friends and family members to check in with you and your loved one every once in a while and ask them to report any suspicious activity they see.
Make sure your loved one has a support network in place
- Family members - Your loved one’s family can help them by checking in with them regularly, making sure they are getting food and other important needs, and talking to them about what they are going through. You may want to get your loved one’s family together in a group setting, like a family meeting or mediation, to talk about how they can help. If your loved one has children, you can help by keeping them involved as much as possible.- Friends - Your loved one may have friends who are willing to lend a hand, or they may have a support group they can join. You can help your loved one by letting their friends know they are in a difficult situation. You can also let your friends know that they are in a difficult situation and need their help.
Make sure your loved one has a will in place
- This is a good way to make sure your loved one’s assets go to the people they want them to, instead of to their abuser if they become incapacitated.- You can also add instructions to your will if you want your loved one’s caregiver or family members to have more control over their finances if they become ill.
Let people know about your loved one’s situation
- You can write a letter to your loved one’s friends and family members and ask them to be extra careful around them. You can also write a letter to your loved one’s doctor, letting them know about the abuse and asking them to keep an eye out for other signs. You can also talk to your loved one’s doctor and ask them to write a letter to their friends and family members.
Be open with your family about your loved one’s situation
- You can share your loved one’s situation with your family members, and you will all be better able to support each other. This can help you all to feel less alone and overwhelmed. When you are open and honest with your family, they will feel better equipped to support you and your loved one, too.
Reporting suspicious activity
- If you see anything suspicious and aren’t sure that the person is a caregiver, you can report it to the police. If you see anything suspicious that might be abuse, like someone who is only there at certain times or has bruises, you should report it as quickly as possible. If you are worried about the well-being of your loved one, you can also call the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233).
Educate yourself on the resources available in your community that can help with abuse prevention
- The National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) - The NNEDV offers a lot of resources to help you prevent abuse and get information about reporting it if you see it happening. You can also use the NNEDV’s online hotline to get help and advice. The NNEDV can also put you in touch with local domestic violence services that can help you get more information and find resources near you.
Make sure your loved one has identification and a way to get help if they ever need it
- You can help your loved one by making them carry ID with them at all times. You can also help your loved one by letting them know about other resources in their community that can help them if they ever need it.
Conclusion
Elder abuse is a serious issue in our society. There are many resources out there to help you and your loved one if you need it. You can reduce your risk of being abused by an in-home